Why Pray For Your Pastor

My first pastor is in prison. My former pastor is no longer pastoring. My current pastor, Steve Gray, started at a small country church with a handful of people.

I lived with my first pastor and his wife and watched as they dealt with a church split and the shut down of a ministry. The betrayal, the hurt and the pain they faced made me not want to go into the ministry. It wasn’t until years later when I worked for a few years for my current pastor that I wanted anything to do with ministry.

One time I asked him and his wife how they dealt with all the stuff that would drive normal people insane. I was amazed at the level of attack directed at them that most of the congregation didn’t know about. I understand their wisdom in wanting to protect the church from the battle they faced.

I recently watched a video of Pastor Ron Carpenter of World Redemption Outreach Center where he tearfully revealed the horror of what he has endured the last 10 years. I was struck by how he shared that he continued to preach with the weight of that dark secret of his wife’s infidelity on him for the sake of the people.

I wept as I watched him sob behind the pulpit about how this was the worst day of his life. It was heart wrenching yet a stark reminder of how desperately we need to pray for our pastors. My own pastor had recently shared how he didn’t feel covered in prayer.

When he shared that at a service, I was convicted because while I had been praying for him, it wasn’t with really any depth. It was an obligatory, this is the right thing to do type of prayer. Just like he said in that service, he wondered how much heart people had put into prayer.

After he shared that, he started leading Thursday night prayer services. In those services, he coached us on how to dig into the depths of prayer and worship. I remember I bawled my eyes out the first time he led prayer and had an amazing encounter with God.

As a result of those services, my husband, Jerome and I set aside one of the rooms in our home as a prayer room. Last night on our date, Jerome told me how he spent 3 hours in prayer on Sunday night in our prayer room. “It didn’t even feel like 3 hours,” he said.

We pray together when we can and spend time in our ‘Prayer Room’ reading the Bible, worshipping or putting into practice what we’ve learned. Last night after our date, I spent time praying for Pastor Ron and the other pastors in my life.

October is Pastor Appreciation Month. Of course we should pray for our pastors beyond October. Here are some facts about pastors in America:

  • 50% of pastor’s marriages end in divorce
  • 18,000 ministers annually leave the ministry due to burnout, termination, moral/marital issues
  • 80% of minister’s spouses wish their spouse would choose another profession

We should pray for our pastors because of the pressure placed on them and their families to be perfect. We tolerate imperfection but when a pastor or a member of his family shows their humanity or weakness, we tend to attack them. I understand that application of the scripture: “For the [d]overseer must be above reproach as God’s steward, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not addicted to wine, not pugnacious, not fond of sordid gain, but hospitable, loving what is good, sensible, just, devout, self-controlled, holding fast the faithful word which is in accordance with the teaching, so that he will be able both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who contradict.” Titus 1:7-9

But the people in the pews are called to be the light of the world and workers of the ministry according to Ephesians 4:11-13. Before we attack leaders for being human, we need to set that standard to ourselves first. Personally, I hate bashing leaders or ministers. Bashing is so easy and people love it.

Pastor Ron said in the video that he expected to be the butt of jokes that some people watching it may be celebrating. I find that sickening that someone would enjoy another person’s day in hell. Let’s commit to pray for our pastors everyday. Pray for protection. Pray for strength. Pray for wisdom.

May God help us fight our prayerless, carnal, immature, selfish bent.

 

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One thought on “Why Pray For Your Pastor

  1. i know my pastor got fired cayuse his wife left him and his best friend took over alot of things in the chruch and was one who voted him out yet the wife that left him still goes to that church he started tohat church and built it up to what it was it is going downhill but people are still supporting it even though they know what was done he was the best pastor mom was dying we had to go to st loius frombranson area he knew i was having a hard time and called my dads cell everyday asking how i was then he always wanted to talk to me and be there for me and pray fo me what pastor does that when he got kicked out i left went to another church at first everything was going good i was even in choir which helped me so much and this new pastoor toke away choir some had been in it for 20 years or more also created a lleader ship team and they chosse praise and worship people who almost have to be radio good my worship pastor should of been able to choose he went to school for music the pastor didnt he said he was the leader of the whole church and had leadership over us and changed everything then we just moved and he wouldnt or let anyone help us move because even though he we went to chruch every sunday we werent official memebers and they only would help offical memebers i dont undrstand and leery of going to chiurch now so dont go anywhere but really feel the push to g but dont know where is the church i am suppossed go to

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